Bad Boys, We Definitely Go for Them

You know what though ladies, never ever subject yourself to a controlling, manipulative, asshole who knows how to sweet talk you into staying with him. Never settle because you THINK you love him. You should KNOW you love him, not think. You should NEVER have to defend your love for him to anyone, especially your friends any family. If your friends think that he’s a bad guy and it’s pretty much everyone who doesn’t like him or who hates him, girl, that is freaking telling you something there. It isn’t just one damn person, it’s EVERY single person whose telling you this and you don’t see it for yourself yet? I’m over telling you how much of a jerk he is and how much he doesn’t respect you at all. You can see it for yourself when shit happens. I have just seen so many things I shouldn’t see come out of this relationship that it makes me mad even seeing this guy. My friend should not be in this relationship.  I know she’s an adult and she can learn from her own mistakes and make her own decisions, but it just makes me irritated and frustrated because they broke up for what 2 days before she somehow got back with him and she doesn’t even really tell me straight up like what the fuck. I’m not only your friend, but your roommate, like I honestly deserve that much considering y’all stole my fucking room and cheated me from how much I should have been ACTUALLY paying. = I should have mentioned it before and it’s as much my fault as anyone else’s, but if you TRULY respected me as a friend AND respected our friendship, you would’ve asked before doing anything you’ve done this year. I honestly thought a lot more highly of you. I sound like a self-centered bitch, but honestly I feel like I’m fair and decent to a fair amount of people who are my so-called “friends,” and I’m pretty much treated like ABSOLUTE SHIT. Like no one is considerate of anything that has to do with me while I TRY my absolute fucking best to be considerate of almost everyone. Obviously I can’t be perfect like who the fuck is in this world? BUT I try my best to be considerate and treat others how they want to be treated. That’s why I’m just sick and tired of everyone and I just want to be left alone or at least be with people who actually even give a fucking shit. I’m only ranting right now because I ABSOLUTELY hate my roommate’s boyfriend. I’ve honestly never hated anyone more than him. He’s a complete fucking asshole and she deserves better, but like I said she can figure it out. I thought she did, but she didn’t and now I have to fucking live through this again. I can’t stand anything about him. I have to tolerate him, but it’s just been hard because everyone’s been so.. inconsiderate of everything and I’m just tired of everything. My roommate should not have him over here showering when he definitely has his own place. Not only that, but even if they have to wake up early tomorrow, it makes no sense for you to sleep here (the both of you). Even though you asked me this time because you know how much it bugs me, he has a PERFECTLY GOOD SINGLE NOTE SINGLEEEE that y’all can sleep in. It makes no freaking sense to me at all why you would sleep here. Yeah closer to the freeway maybe but who cares?!?! That’s just being inconsiderate of me again in the end. Yes I said I didn’t care but when its 12 AM in the damn morning, I don’t have the energy to be the bitch that said no because I don’t like your boyfriend. Gosh I am going to try to tolerate him since I only have another month, but he honestly ruined my friendship with her. Sometimes I don’t even like her or I think she’s absolutely annoying or irritating because of the things she does with him. Usually I’m not as annoyed with her and I never used to be, but nowadays I just feel she spends all of her time with him and doesn’t really spend time with her girlfriends. Guess she goes for bro over hos yeah? Well I wouldn’t ditch my friends for a freaking douchebag especially when he’s ruined all of your other friendships as well. Honestly, I don’t know how this bodes for our future as friends. It’s sad because I’ve known her for 4 years since college started, since day 1 and this is how it’s ending up because of some stupid boyfriend. *SIGH*. Anyway, that’s really all I have for now. Sorry for this insignificant stupid rant, but I haven’t been going out much lately anyway, so I’ve become boring as heck lol.

Till next time!!!

Mardi Gras Tuesday

Mardi Gras, I have never really celebrated it at all, but this year I was like hmm, seems like it would be fun going to Backyard in PB since it was a Tuesday night and Tuesday nights are super fun at Backyard.

This night, it was a duo night, so it was my cousin and I who went together. We pregamed a little bit and then went on our way. When we got there, it was pretty packed already and seemed super fun. She had never been to Backyard before so I was pretty excited to take her there. We danced at first on the dance floor and then went to the outer area to dance because it was more airy there. While she was dancing, she accidentally bumped into a girl and the girl spilled her drink. I was like, oh crap honestly because I really didn’t want a fight to ensue over a spilled drink (to me it’s sort of petty because yes it’s a paid drink, but it’s something you can replace). Anyway, my cousin went to the bar to buy her another drink and I told her, you better make sure she doesn’t rip you off because spilt drink or not, she has to do right and order the same drink. It didn’t seem like the girl ordered anything expensive, so after that whole debacle, we left to go dance again.

We wanted to order a drink so we went to the bar and one of the bartenders from Omnia works there, so we went up to him because I’ve spoken to him a few times before, but he never seems to remember my name ever. Of course he didn’t remember it this time either lol. Whatever, but he was nice and we talked to him for a bit and got a drink all the while leaving him a decent tip. We drank it and danced of course.

A little later, we wanted something else because apparently she wasn’t drunk enough yet (I’m pretty sure she was, but according to the crap that was being spewed from her mouth, she wasn’t). Against my better judgement, we ordered another drink (I was ok for sure because I can handle a decent amount of alcohol, but i wasn’t too sure about her).

Anyway, this is when s*** starts to almost go down (excuse my language). So we went to another bartender this time and my cousin starts to wave at him and try to get his attention. i was honestly about to smack her because you’re just not supposed to wave down bartenders. They have a pretty good feel for who got to the bar first, so you’re always supposed to wait your turn and just be patient. She kept waving at him and i was getting so pissy because it’s like what the freak?? Is this how you treat the bartenders??! Like what?! I told her she shouldn’t be waving them down like that because they will ignore you even more and not get to you until later. Not only that, but they get really annoyed with you and I just didn’t want a bartender to hate us or get annoyed by us because of something so trivial. So we got a drink and this is when it gets even MORE stupid. I asked her how much I should tip him and I was thinking about $3.00 or so, so it would make the total come out to $16.00. She gave me $10 in cash at that moment and I asked her if this covers part of the other bartender’s tip from earlier and if the rest is for this guy and she kept saying I gave you a $10 and I’m like I KNOW, but is the rest for this guy so should I give him $5 for tip. She eventually got it and shut up, but then I told her I was giving him $3.00 then and I settled for $3.00 but her freaking drunk a** (sorry) kept saying why are you giving him $16.00?!?! And I was like WTF are you talking about??! I’m giving him THREE DOLLARS. $13 + $3= $16 and she kept arguing like that with me for a good few minutes and I was getting so heated and annoyed. I honestly wanted to punch my own cousin like it was RIDICULOUS. I was like why the freak is this argument even happening like wtf. And honestly she ruined my night with how she conducted herself with the bartenders and whatnot.

So after that whole thing went down, we went to go dance and I ran into a friend of mine who was with his roommates. I hadn’t seen or gone out with him for a while so it was surprising. We caught up for a bit and he updated me on his love life. He told me how it was weird being officially single again, but it was interesting. We ended up hanging out with him and his roommate for the rest of the night, but it was so much fun.

After, we were thinking about possibly hanging out with them at their place, but what happened was a security guy came up to his roommate and outright accused him of being all over this one girl when all he did was ask her to dance and she rejected him. I was like as attractive as you are security guy, don’t start spewing crap that isn’t true like what the heck? We saw what happened you idiot, don’t try to be all macho. Yeah, some other security guys ran after some other guys too, so I don’t really know what was going on that night lol.

So my cousin and I just went home and oh before we left Backyard though, we said bye to our friend and I apologized on behalf of my cousin to the other guy because of her waving him down and whatnot and he said it was ok and that most times they just ignore whoever waves them down anyway lol (thanks for that tidbit). I also got his name because for me, I just feel that it’s appropriate to get people’s names and get to know them. I could tell he appreciated that we were apologizing though, so it was good (why am I always apologizing for people lol…) Anyway, we went back to my place and that’s that.

What a stupid night, but whatever it’s over and done with and there’s more nights to come anyway.

Hasta la vista my lovely readers.

Triple the Fun

February 24, 2017 (have to date it since this was from a few weeks ago)

Like I mentioned in Party at the Zoo, I skipped the night before because Elephante at Omnia was more recent and was one that I had more fun at.

This night, we went bar hopping in downtown (ACTUAL bar hopping LOL since last time we didn’t actually hop anywhere at all). It was super last minute because I got off work at 10 that night, but my cousin asked me if I wanted to go out with her and her friend and I was like, you know what, why not? I don’t have that much going on, so why not. So we agreed on going to downtown to go to the bars there. I asked my housemate if she wanted to go and she was iffy at first, but she ended up agreeing on going for once (WOW). So then we drank a little bit of sake that we had leftover from dinner the night before and we headed out on our way.

We first went to Tipsy Crow because I had heard a lot of interesting and good things about it from a lot of my other friends. It was a pretty cool place; it was different in that the first floor where the entrance was had a bar and then upstairs there was a game area where you could play pool or play air hockey and whatnot. Then downstairs.. sort of a basement looking place was where the “dance floor” was. That was interesting because I honestly wasn’t sure how I felt about the music they were playing that night and the crowd that was downstairs. It just felt weird, so we went back  upstairs, but the girls weren’t really feeling it (of course), so we ended up leaving. We were going to go back to Analog (ugh can’t they just try different places sometimes and leave their comfort zone?), but we got stopped by this really sweet promoter (a girl) who told us if we wanted to go to f6ix, she could get us in and get us some complimentary drinks. We were like eh, what the heck, why not? So we went and it was an interesting underground dance club. We got some free champagne and we sort of stood off to one corner drinking and talking because the vibe of the club was sort of weird. We weren’t used to the crowd that was there and wasn’t sure if we wanted to stay there.

While we were standing in our little corner, I got pulled by some guys who were VERY touchy. I was uncomfortable because they were very, very, VERY direct and I didn’t appreciate them getting all up in my space. One guy came very close to me and told me that he really liked my style of dress and it was really fancy looking and whatnot and I responded with a “Thank you,” and I don’t remember if he asked me to dance or not, but if he did I said no, but thank you. Then another guy comes up to me and literally takes me by the ends of my jacket and pulls me to him and tries to dance with me Now this, I REALLY didn’t appreciate and I didn’t really try to dance with him at all and he tells me you act like you’ve never danced with a guy. I honestly wanted to laugh in his face because if he knew how my weekends were, he wouldn’t say something like that. It wasn’t offensive to me, it was more funny and ironic if anything. So I told him that it was girls night and I just wanted to dance with my girls. After that, we were like NOPE, definitely not staying here so we left as soon as possible (we practically ran out of there) and we went to Double Deuce.

This was a really cool bar because on one side it was country and the other where the mechanical bull was, it was mainstream, hip hop, etc… We stayed on the side where the mechanical bull was and it was really cool watching people attempt to stay on the bull. Anyway, we just danced and a guy came up to me once again and we danced for a bit, but I really wasn’t interested, so I stopped after a while and all of us girls just danced together until the end.

After that, we just ended up waiting for an Uber to go home and we did. Overall, it was a decently fun night; I mean we got free champagne right? Haha!

Till next time y’all!

Avec Amour!

Party at the Zoo

I definitely skipped the night before, but this was for the weekend of February 25th. I went out the night before on Friday, but I’ll post that afterwards because this was a pretty fun night and was one of the more recent ones.

This was an Omnia night (at least I haven’t been there for 3 weeks now LOL). Anyway, yay for Omnia nights. I went with my two roommates, my cousin and her boyfriend, and my roommate’s boyfriend again, so it was the 6 of us once again. Elephante was the artist who was playing which is why the title of this blog is Party at the Zoo.

We got to Omnia and I was feeling some sort of way already since we pre-gamed before we left. I surprisingly was feeling it earlier than usual, but I assume it’s because I took 4 shots in the span of a few minutes. Anyway, we waited in line for a bit and got in. I was trying to find my big from one of my organizations, so we went up to the rooftop to chill and possibly get a drink. My big found me and I disappeared with him to go say hi to some of his friends who I knew who were there. We took pictures and I ended up hanging out with him for a bit. We wanted to get drinks so we went to the 2nd floor and he got us both drinks (super sweet!). He and I talked and hung out for a bit because I wanted him to catch me up on everything that was going on in his life and to check if he was ok with certain situations he was in. Afterwards, he wanted to go to the first floor and I went with him, but there was a mini line for the dance floor, so I left and he went to go find his friends on the main floor.

Some of my friends were working on the main floor so I stopped by really quick to say hi to them and honestly, I didn’t remember giving them hugs or not or vice-versa, but according to my roommate, I told her they did (this is one of those rare nights I’m not really.. myself lol).

Anyway, after that I went up to the 2nd floor to say hi to my other friend and to meet up with my housemate. We met up and I got another drink for she and I because she wasn’t as “there” as I was and she wanted another drink. We shared a mind eraser and we went to go dance. We ended up running into everyone else on the 2nd floor and for the rest of the night, we stayed on the 2nd floor jamming to the music and just feeling all sorts of ways. My housemate and I spoke with some guys who were dancing with us, but eh, they weren’t that interesting. A few guys came up to speak to me, but that night I wasn’t interested in anyone and just wanted to dance with the girls and guys. I also went to go talk to the bathroom attendants that I made friends with on the 2nd and 3rd floor, to see what was going on in their lives as well.

After that, I just went back to dance with the rest of the group until the end of the night. I have to say, this was one of my sloppier nights. I remember spilling water at the bar in front of my friend and I felt a little bit embarrassed because usually I’m not that sloppy, but that night I was. It was a fun night though and I don’t regret anything that happened at all that night.

Once Omnia started kicking people out, we headed to Brian’s 24 in downtown to go eat because Uber prices were crazy and we were all hungry. We waited in line and once we got in, all of us scarfed down the food like we had never eaten food before. Everything tasted so good, but I’m assuming it’s from all of the alcohol that we consumed in all honesty. Anyway, that’s pretty much all that happened for that night. Not too eventful.

Till next time y’all! Sorry for the super late posts, like I said before, I just haven’t been in the writing/typing mode lately, but I’ll try to update y’all with my adventures as soon as possible!

Avec amour!








Sunday Fundays

Well, who would’ve known I would be out on a Sunday when a new quarter has started? Not me, but hey it was a 4 day weekend for me, so why not? As long as I did my work that needed to be done, it was ok for me to enjoy myself.

Coming back from my family wedding this weekend was a bit tiring and I honestly had a brief moment when I thought, “Should I really go to see Cash Cash at Omnia tonight?” It only lasted for a second before I told myself that I should go out and enjoy my Sunday night since I was off from classes for Martin Luther King Jr Day on Monday. So I went out to Omnia (of course) with my friends to see Cash Cash.

It was really scary because we almost didn’t make it in since we missed the guest list line cutoff, but we did make it in and that’s all that matters in the end. It was just a bit of a pain trying to talk to bouncers and managers to get in.

Once we got in though, it was PACKED. The first floor where the dance floor was, was just insanely crazy. I really had to go to the bathroom, but the bathroom line was super packed since it was the first floor and that’s where everyone was coming from. We went up the stairs to try the 2nd floor bathroom, but that was just as packed, so we went to the rooftop where most of my bartender friends were. I went to the bathroom first though and after that got a drink.

While waiting to get a drink, I ran into so many people I knew. It was sort of a pain and not fun running into almost everyone who is over 21 from school. I honestly enjoy going out to different places so that I wouldn’t run into so many people from school, but instead I see at least 10 different people I know. Who would’ve known that so many people would want to see Cash Cash on a Sunday night albeit it being a holiday the next day. I would’ve wanted to avoid everyone, but it’s inevitable I run into people I know because literally it was just packed with students from school. Also, I’m straight up not into people who are my age or younger than I am and I honestly prefer older guys, I might have mentioned in a previous post, but anyway it just was not the most ideal situation.

I was really looking forward to meeting a guy that night, so that sort of killed my vibe since I was going to have to be careful about who I spoke to lol. But other than that I was also really looking forward to have some fun and get down and dance since every other time I’ve gone something always ends up ruining my fun. Funny right?

Moving on, I went up to the roof and coincidentally, two of my bartender friends were there so it was great since my favorite bartender was there, the one who I think is REALLY attractive. He did this weird thing and was like look who it is?? Haha, he’s hilarious. My friend got a drink first and I got one after. I went with my normal Sex on the Beach drink, always one of my favorites. I also talked to the barback there who is attractive, but who I’m pretty sure is taken too sadly. He was super nice as well. Then there was my other bartender I met a few weeks ago and who my roommate said looked like my favorite bartender. Haha. I asked if he remembered me and he said if I remembered his name and I said his name and he was like NOPEE. I was like it totally is and I asked if he remembered mine and apparently he calls me Tiff, but it’s Tiffany, so hey a win for me? Haha! I’m getting to know these guys wayyy too well for being a regular… At least they all like me? I hope LOL… As a customer anyway, those tips right? I’m not sure if we’re at friend level yet; well the ones I Just met no, but the ones I’ve known for a bit, we SHOULD be, but who knows. I could be the annoying regular who always comes, but my favorite bartender said to someone that I was one of his favorite customers so… *shrug* I don’t know hahaha.

Oh also, we made friends with one of other bathroom attendants because I know she works hard and honestly when we work, for the MOST part, don’t we all sort of want people to talk to us? We don’t want anyone to think differently of us or to have people think they’re better than us you know? I do believe that we should should treat others how we would want to be treated. She called us regulars and I honestly agreed and don’t really have a problem with that haha.

Anyway, after, I ran into my little from one of my organizations and met up with my roommate who met up with some of her friends. I introduced myself to them and talked to some of them. They seemed chill enough, but I didn’t stay with them long enough to find out. We wanted to go downstairs to see Cash Cash, so we went down and danced for a bit.

Since my goal was trying to find a guy that night, I saw a few that were looking and one did try to talk to me, but it was his friend that I was trying to ask to dance (oops). So I asked his friend and he was pretty good looking, in my opinion. Dance wise… I wish he was a bit better, but it’s ok lol. He was nice enough I feel. After a bit, I saw another guy and he wasn’t that great looking, ok and I asked him to dance and he wanted to go up to the roof and “talk.” So we talked and then we started making out, no lie lol (I’ll be truthful so sorry for TMI). I think most of my lipstick ended up on his face somewhere LOL… He wanted to get to know more about me sort of, but eh I honestly wasn’t that interested and in all honesty, I’m a boring person who only talks about school and work, so… that’s that.

We went down to dance a bit more and it was really fun. I went to go say hi to my other two bartender friends who I knew were working at the 2nd floor bar and then I went to the bathroom. I knew the bathroom attendant from the 2nd floor because I’ve spoken with her and made friends with her previously, just small talk, but I’ve spoken with her. She’s super nice and didn’t remember my name, but she definitely remembers me from all of the other times I’ve come haha. She’s such a sweetheart, I really like her.

Afterwards, I went to go find the guy even though I honestly semi didn’t want to, but I did and we danced till the end when everyone had to leave. He didn’t ask for my number which is fine and my friends and I went to the pizza place next door to get some food and meet up with another friend we had come with. They got pizza while I sat and relaxed outside. I had a few guys approach me and I didn’t mind, but my friend kept pushing them away when I was fine to push them away if I wanted to, so that was sort of interesting lol.

While we waited, we ran into the barback we had just met at Omnia. I was like wait Hi! I didn’t recognize him without his hat, but we said hi and he came and sat with us for a bit and we just made small talk and got to know him which was nice. He’s such a sweetheart too. Anyway, we had to leave so we said bye to him and got in our Uber. And that’s that for that night. One of the best nights at Omnia I’ve had in a while and what a great Sunday as well. Great end to my weekend after seeing and reuniting with my family during the wedding. Well that’s all for now. You’ll be hearing more adventures from me soon.

A Plus Tard (sorry I have no accents)