Recently, I have witnessed some ugly and repulsive events occur. The actions that occurred should never have happened. They only happened because of the lack of trust in that relationship. If and When these actions do occur, they should be warning signals to you that something is not right in your relationship. With what I have seen happen, I will say to you that no one deserves to be treated that way. Everyone deserves the best possible person who will complement them, treat them well, and love them unconditionally. No one deserves to be in an abusive, controlling relationship, be it a man or a woman. It always goes both ways, yes it does. However, if someone starts to change for the worse because of their significant other, that relationship obviously isn’t meant to be. Now, I don’t mean to sound like a cynic, but even when the couple tires to work out their issues, sometimes it’s just too difficult and it isn’t meant to be. When you have a lot of your close friends telling you that they don’t like him, that should be telling you something. I know it’s hard to see past the good layer and see the bad layer, but you cannot be blind and naive. Even if you believe that there is good in everyone and only want to see the best in everyone, sometimes people can’t change for the better and there isn’t much to see beneath that layer.
Never allow anyone to change who you are as a person and never try to transform yourself into what an ideal image that someone else sees. Be free and be yourself. Never allow someone to control you and never allow them to tell you that you can’t do something, because you can as long as you are motivated enough and push yourself enough. Have dreams and follow them.
Note: These are my own thoughts and opinions said from own viewpoint. You may have your own beliefs and thoughts and opinions and I respect that, so please respect mine. I am merely typing what I observe and feel. I will not tolerate anyone who tries to slander me in any way. Comment if you please; however, I would enjoy hearing of your opinions 🙂