Bachelor in Paradise Episode 8

Looks like everyone’s really praying for a miracle today. A miracle that will SOMEHOW help Ashley get over Jared and stop with her incessant crying. I’m with them and praying for it too because I honestly cannot stand the sounds of torture anymore, just PLEASE bring someone in. PLEASE.


Well, well,wells. YES, Finally a guy who actually catches Ashley’s interest. Like how long did that take?? I understand being picky, but I felt like she was just very, VERY unwilling to let go of her grudge against Caila and her feelings for Jared and focus on herself and finding a guy she’s interested in. But thankfully, Wells came in and swooped her off her misery, literally. Everyone started clapping and cheering because FINALLY, it’s over and she can move on and everyone else can stop walking around eggshells and trying to comfort her. Thank goodness.


Caila and Jared are very obviously happy, as they should be. They can FINALLY move forward in their relationship without feeling like they have to be holding back. They’re so cute together not dealing with all the drama. Omg, I’m smiling just from watching them.

Wells and Ashley go on their date and talk about the bands they enjoy and dogs. They light a lantern and it goes up in flames, literally (I wonder if that’s a sign Hmm…) Honestly, I sort of skipped this part because I wasn’t too interested in watching it. I know that’s all they did on the date though, so moving on…

Grace are having trouble in paradise because Lace keeps flirting with other guys. I feel like she’s just worried that everything is too good to be true, like Amanda said and that she doesn’t deserve the good things that are happening to her. In all honesty, I think that everyone deserves to find love and happiness; however, the tactics that she’s using are so juvenile and childish, just very immature. It’s something that I would do right now because I’m not ready for anything. I think that she’s not ready for a real relationship and in my opinion and should have waited a bit to find herself and figure things out for herself. You can’t really be with someone until you have found yourself and you know yourself. (Sorry guys, I admit I can be real opinionated sometimes lol). Anyways, Grace get into a huge argument, but eventually make up. Aw, I don’t know if this is good news or bad news…

Meanwhile, Josh is being a huge douche, honestly he is. I didn’t even read Andi’s book or watch Andi’s season, but the way he’s acting towards Jen and Nick like oh, we called dibs on the boom boom room is so immature and not attractive at all. Anyone can sleep there and if Amanda doesn’t want to sleep in the same bed with you tonight or doesn’t want to sleep in the room with you tonight, then deal with it! Don’t act like such a child about it and throw a hissy fit. Y’all can sleep in a different bed anyway. Ugh, his actions are disgusting me more and more each episode. He even got into a little argument with Nick about it. Just ugh.

Cocktail party time and rose ceremony time:

Grace solidify their relationship once more and Carly and Evan tell each other that they love each other. Carly can’t believe it because she’s falling for the penis man. Who would’ve thought huh?

Daniel knows he’s on the chopping block and is doing anything he can to stay. He brings food to Haley and a CANADIAN lamp to Izzy because apparently Izzy likes lamps… Brett apparently brought a 60 watt lamp though so that beats Daniels…?

Josh and Amanda are falling in love with each other, which the Twins think is very concerning because they don’t know enough about Josh and are worried about his temper. They ask Nick what they think about him and Nick tells them about what happened with the bed issue the night before and of course brings up Andi’s book once again, telling them that it can’t all be fictional.

Now, for the rose ceremony (ladies night):

Carly to Evan

Ashley to Wells

Jen to Nick

Izzy to Brett

Caila to Jared

Lace to Grant

Amanda to Josh (who cannot stop kissing Amanda, just please stop)

Haley… and Emily to… No one because they don’t feel those sparks, that connection. That means that Ryan, Daniel, and Carl are all leaving rose-less this week as well. Before leaving though, they pull Amanda aside and tell her their concerns and then leave before any repercussions could come. Naturally, Amanda tells Josh and he starts going off and getting all pissed off. Josh calls everyone down and pretty much goes off on all of them. The thing is, I think he’s slick and I agree with everything everyone said before about him. It looks like he’s practiced what to say, especially since he just had his character talked about in a book. I can’t really be a great judge because I don’t know HIM, but when you have your best friends tell you to not trust him and to be cautious and you have A LOT of other people tell you the same thing, shouldn’t you really heed their warnings and think twice…? Once again, Josh goes off and says stop talking behind my back, but no one really is… The Twins wanted to talk to Nick about their concerns and that’s that. They wanted their friend to feel and be safe and be sure about her decision.. In all honesty, yes the topic is you, but it doesn’t really actually concern you. The moment that Nick tells Josh that everything written about himself is true, Josh becomes all quiet and stops arguing. Josh is ready to leave, but Amanda wants to stay with him and wants to stop listening to everyone. I mean it’s up to you. All the best of luck to you dear.

Jami arrives in paradise, but everyone is still sleeping and only Wells is awake.

“Chad has come and murdered everyone and  only Wells is left.”-Wells LOL, that is freaking hilarious.

Jami opens her date card and decides to ask out Wells (not sure if it’s because he’s the only one here or if it’s because she wanted to) Seems like she actually wanted to meet him, so who knows. Ashley is still asleep (thank goodness) so no one has to deal with her incessant crying YET.

Like Jorge says, “Early bird catches the worm.” (Jami)

Surprisingly, Ashley is not at all worried about Wells going on the date with Jami and is actually really calm about it. Everyone was waiting for the explosion to happen, but it didn’t happen. Instead… She decides to go talk to Jared… what the freak…? I swear Ashley is just going backwards because once again we hear her thoughts on how it’s a nightmare seeing Jared and Caila get closer blah blah blah. She isn’t moving on at all and I know it takes time but right now it’s just annoying.

Caila and Ashley have another conversation and Ashley once again keeps telling her how she has doubts blah blah. Caila is pretty fed up with how she’s being treated and how people are just listening to Ashley when they don’t really know her at all. They weren’t really friends, more like acquaintances before the show any who, so Caila isn’t backstabbing anyone. She really doesn’t need or want the attention (YES GIRL!) so she wants to leave paradise now too.

I know that this is a reality TV show and producers do push and nudge people and storylines in certain directions, but this is just a stupid storyline now and I don’t know why they can’t let Jared and Caila be. Like Ashley, move on and don’t tell people not to make out in front of you because it will happen anyway. I don’t know her and her personality and can’t say anything at all really, but from my perspective, it’s just so immature and juvenile what she’s doing for her own happiness. It’s very selfish of her and for her to be calling someone a backstabbing whore all the time while saying she’s the best doesn’t look that much better. I know people are defending her, but it’s not ok for y’all to be calling Caila a whore and b**** either. It’s not ok for y’all to bully either of them and before y’all go off on me for being “hypocritical,” I’m simply stating what I see and what I think, not defaming anyone’s image. If I were Caila, I’d honestly leave too because it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks in the end, I’d just want the person I’m spending time with to have their own viewpoint about me (which is what Amanda is doing and I respect that and all the best to her). Anyway, that’s all for this episode. See y’all next time!

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